Do the members depend upon a
charismatic leader,
or his memory, and upon whom they heap adoration?
no. Each congregation is autonomous. The president of UUA is Peter Morales. I've been attending the Unitarian Universalists of Fallston for over a year and I don't recall his name ever being mentioned. In fact, I have no idea of what his personal beliefs are.
Question 2
Is there pressure to donate all or most of your
disposable income?
no. The congregation would like you to pledge a contribution so that it can make its yearly budget. An announcement is made at the Sunday meeting to donate. Members are not told how much to donate.
Question 3
Do members devote all or most of their spare time to
organizational activities?
not if they don't want to. No one is forced to participate although I have been nudged for some things :)
Question 4
Are the members inconvenienced, for example, expected
to drive long distances to attend large central meetings?
I'm gonna say no. There is a general assembly every year I think but it's not mandatory. If you can make it, fine.
Question 5
Do the publications co-opt the names and accomplishments of
famous people, even though the people being co-opted are not
members?
no, I think. I haven't been pushed to read any UU literature. I have the magazine but it only features members.
Question 6
Do the publications ignore the feedback or criticisms
submitted by rank and file members?
The magazine has a Letters to the Editor section. I don't know about any other publications.
Question 7
Are members with long time chronic problems eventually
looked down upon and made to feel unwelcome?
not that I'm aware of
Question 8
Are there high-pressure targets for increasing membership?
no, at least not in my congregation. I was a Friend of the congregation for about a year - year and a half. After going through the Intro to Membership presentation, I wasn't asked again. Ever. I signed up when I felt comfortable.
Question 9
Are decisions in the organization made top-down and
hierarchically?
Maybe some, but unsure. Congregations are autonomous and they make their own decisions. I guess they work within a basic UU framework. There will be differences between congregations.
Question 10
Are the organization's leaders appointed rather
than elected?
elected
Question 11
Are the organization's charter, mission, rules, and
by-laws made by the top leaders without consulting the
rank and file members?
not sure
Question 12
Is there an absence of financial transparency?
not sure
Question 13
Are members pressured to give inflated testimonials
at meetings?
no. There has never been a testimonial at my UU congregation.
Question 14
Are non-believers regarded with aloofness and suspicion?
no. I was welcomed from day 1. But this question doesn't really fit. There is not really a such thing as a UU non-believer. Non-member, yes.
Question 15
Are members told who to vote for in public elections?
not that I'm aware of
Question 16
Does the organization interfere in a member's
choice of personal lifestyle?
no
Question 17
Does the organization interfere in a member's
choice of marital partner?
no
Question 18
Are scandals within the organization hidden?
I'm not aware of any UU scandals. Time to do Google search.
Question 19
Does the organization attack competing organizations,
denominations or religions?
no, although it has been said that UU is not for everyone.
Question 20
Is culture misused, watered down, or bastardized, in order
to help achieve numerous rapid shallow conversions?
no
Question 21
Are members discouraged from asking a lot of questions?
no
Question 22
Is individuality suppressed and conformity promoted?
no
Question 23
Are some of the beliefs, doctrines, or practices bizarre?
Interesting question. As a whole, UU is quite generic and I mean that in a good way. I guarantee that individually, there may be members who have "bizarre" practices. No one's complaining.
Question 24
Is dissent suppressed and hidden?
no. If you no longer want to be UU, you can leave. They will be sad to see you go but won't force you to stay.
Question 25
Are members told that if they discontinue their
participation, their personal destiny will
deteriorate?
no. Again, they will miss your fellowship.
I love Unitarians. I've been to several UU churches for different occasions and never once had to hide the fact that I identify as Pagan. No one even blinked when I told them. Not only have they seen it all/heard it all, they just don't care. They seem to be genuinely interested in having each person around for his/her unique and individual perspective and contribution, no matter what it is labeled as. :)
ReplyDeletethat's how I felt as well. After 2 visits, they made me a name tag. There was no pressure to formally become a member. They said I could remain a Friend of the Church (what they call regular attendees who haven't joined) for as long as I wanted.
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