Full Moon Uposatha dharma

http://bhikkhucintita.wordpress.com/2011/01/18/not-self-thought-experiment-2/

Not-Self: Thought Experiment 2: Through the Looking Glass

Nichiren Shoshu

I went to a Nichiren Shoshu intro meeting yesterday. They played a little bit of the PBS special on the The Buddha (http://www.pbs.org/thebuddha - also on Netflix). Afterwards, there was a Q&A session. I like the fact that the intro meeting didn't bash other Nichiren Buddhist paths. However, in talking to individual members, I found that they are quick to bring up the infamous NST / SGI split. Here are a few questions that were asked, the priest's answer, and then my comments.

Q: Is there a God / Divine figure in Buddhism? A creation story?
A: No. Buddhists are concerned with cause and effect. A Divine figure keeps people from taking responsibility for their own actions. As for the creation story, Buddhist aren't concerned with how we got here. The important thing is the here and now.

I agree with this for the most part. However, I believe in Goddess. Humans were created with free will. Whatever happens to us (as in humankind in general) is our own fault. God/dess does not give little kids cancer or cause bad things to happen to good people. One thing that I dislike is when a very young baby or child dies that God took him/her to be an angel. I know parents need comfort in time like this, but can they really think God is so cruel? The law of cause and effect would make better sense of this tragedy. Something happened (cause) that caused the child to die (effect). The Divine had nothing to do with it.


Q: Since Nichiren Shoshu believes that the priesthood is responsible for teaching the laypeople, is there proof of an unbroken High Priest succession from the beginning or is it based on faith? *my question :)*
A: The transfer ceremony is conducted between High Priest and his successor. The ceremony is secret, mystical. Therefore no one can say for sure that the line has been unbroken. It is based on faith.

I loved his answer! Lots of NS sites will point to this unbroken line of High Priests as one of the reasons why NS is true Buddhism. How can anyone know for sure?

Q: Are Buddhists vegetarian?
A: As far as Nichiren Shoshu is concerned, whether to eat meat or not is a personal decision. There is no doctrine for or against eating meat.

Again, great answer. What one eats is a personal choice. I believe that long long long time ago, we didn't eat meat but something happened to change that. I think humans at this point need meat to survive. However, I have nothing against vegetarians as long as they don't try to convert me.

Q: Is the High Priest line of succession similiar to the Tibetan Dali Lama line of succession?
A: The priest admitted that he didn't know much about Tibetan Buddhism. Buddhists believe in reincarnation. The next Dali Lama is chosen based on the new one retaining specific knowledge from his former life. The High Priest is not chosen in this way. The specific method of chosing the next high priest is unknown.

Well, I don't believe in reincarnation, at least, not right now.

All in all, it was a good meeting. I wish more new people had questions. I will continue studying Nichiren Shoshu but I will not be joining. It is too strict and orthodox for me.

1st quarter Uposatha

Ah, one of the times that my practices overlap. In some Buddhist practices, the phases of the moon are consider a sabbath of sorts. Today is the 1st quarter or half moon. Theme is balance. I like to do a tarot card spread with an even amount of cards.

Triple Goddess

Since my posts have been about Buddhism, I decided that it was time for a Pagan post. The Triple Goddess – Maiden, Mother, Crone - typically refers to the Moon and Her phases.  I like to think of the Triple Goddess during solar occults* and lunar eclipses as consisting of the Moon Goddess, the Earth Goddess, and the Sun Goddess. The symbol for Triple Goddess in type is )O( or in picture form a waxing crescent moon, a full moon, and a waning crescent moon.

Triple Goddess also refers to different periods during a woman's lifetime. Maiden is from birth to 21, Mother is from 21 to menopause, and Crone is from menopause onward. Now, these are just my arbitrary values. Another Solitary or coven may a totally different setup. Maiden could be from birth to puberty and Mother from puberty to menopause but with puberty starting earlier and earlier, I would have a hard time seeing a 9 yr old as Mother. Usually there is a special ceremony for the beginning of each stage.

Note that in Paganism, Crone does not have a negative connotation. Maybe someone to post a comment about the background for this.

*Technically, solar occult is the proper name for the event that we call solar eclipse. The moon blocks, hides, or occults the sun.

Finding religion is like finding a diet

A reader posted a link to Teller's video talking about proselytizing, Teller said that if you believe with your whole heart that you have the truth then you should tell people. I get that point. That made think of comparing religion to dieting. You have a friend Sue who recently improved her health, lost/gained weight, toned muscles, etc. She's happy and wants to share how she did it. She tells you she followed this plan called Diet A (I know, not very creative!). You listen to her, because it sounds interesting and you can see that it helped Sue immensely. You go to the meetings, get the products, follow the plan to the letter. But guess what, it doesn't work for you. You have another friend who swears by a different plan called Diet B. You go to the meetings, get the products, follow the plan and voila! You feel great!

You and Sue have a mutual friend Bob. Bob sees both you, happy and content, and wants to know what plan to use. You say Diet B but Sue says Diet A. Who is right? Who should Bob believe? Bob is confused so he researches both and finds things he likes about A and B but things he dislikes. He creates Diet AB and lo and behold, he gets results!

So now we have 3 diet plans that all work. So again, which one is the right one? Should Sue tell Bob he's not using the right plan even though he has verifiable results?

Replace "diet" with "religion" and hopefully you can see my point. If something works for you, you want to share it – I get that. But you cannot force it. Let them make the choice. If someone says no thank you, respect that. Don't try to come up with ways to overcome their objections. Spirituality should not be a sales pitch.

I’m having a problem with Shakubuku

Or rather the way that some NB organizations are presenting it. Maybe because I'm a recovering Jehovah's Witness (more on that later). I have a real problem telling someone that his/her religion is wrong or inferior and mine is right or superior. In case you didn't know, as I understand it, Shakubuku is what Nichiren Buddhists call the process of proseltyzing and converting non-believers. Most times it's passive, not active like going from door-to-door.

I mean, it's different if a person comes  to me and says, Hey, I heard you're a Buddagan, can you tell me more about that? Then I'll say, sure, here is a brief rundown of my spiritual beliefs. But to go and seek out people to convert, I just can't and won't do it. I notice that Pagans in general have no conversion process or goal. If you have questions, you can find a Solitary or a teaching coven to assist you. But you have to make the first step. Pagans don't go around forcing folks to join. I don't have experience with other Buddhist paths so I don't know if shakubuku is only a Nichiren Buddhist thing. I'm in no position to tell someone – not even my own children  - what religion or spiritual path they should take.

I guess I should tell you my shakubuku story: a coworker decided to invite me to a Nichiren Buddhist intro meeting. Something I said to her made her feel that it would be a good idea. To this day neither one of us can remember what that was. Anyway, I'm glad she did. I was at a point in my life where I felt something was missing. After a few failed attempts to rejoin the JW flock, I needed a change. So I went to the meeting. I was a bit weird with all the chanting but after I went to the 2^nd meeting I was used to it. I was told that I didn't have to change my current belief system although I eventually did on my own.

I started chanting. "Mama Buddha" said that's how I can see for myself whether it works. Yeah I was skeptical but I chanted anyway, just saying nam myoho renge kyo sans gohonzon. I noticed changes in me. So did my husband. This was in March 2010. I guess I owe shakubuku breaking free of my previous brainwashing. But Mama Buddha didn't refute my beliefs or break me down. She invited me to a meeting, answered my questions, and let me decide for myself if I wanted to continue. It was more like this meaning:

http://www.gakkaionline.net/Imagery/Shakubuku.html

Quote from the site says "Shakubuku is not breaking and subduing people, it is stopping suffering and awakening to life's potential."

If Shakubuku is helping people to stop suffering and awaken their Buddha nature, then cool.

Interesting things I've learned about Muslim

• The Quran is not in chronological order. It's arranged from longest chapter to the shortest.
• Muslims pray extra on lunar and solar eclipses.